“I will never be planning a birthday party or party for anyone ever again,” said a TikTok creator named Danielle in a now-deleted video that has since been re-shared on X by user @wilderpatriot.

Danielle, while wiping away tears, explained in the clip that her boyfriend was turning 30 soon and she had secured a rental property with pickleball courts for his big day.

She added that his parents helped pitch in for it and there would even be a taco caterer on site. “It going to be so nice, he’s gonna love it,” Danielle said before finally revealing the reason she was crying.

“None of his friends are coming. I invited about 20 of them and none of them can make it."

Danielle continued: “It’s heartbreaking, It’s disappointing, and I don’t have the heart to tell him that and I wanted this to be so special and nice. I feel like it’s my fault. I feel like I let him down."

Users on X weren't sure how to react to her video and started to place blame on her instead of acknowledging all the effort she had put into this party.

@wilderpatriot, who shared her video, had several questions including: "Wait, how much notice did she give his friends?" and "Why is she now humiliating him on TikTok?"

Another user responded to her video: "Need some more details... Where are the friends in relationship to the party location? Do they have to travel and take off from work? Is it on a weekday or weekend? Are there charges that the party goers need to pay?"

Others wondered how her boyfriend even had 20 friends.

And some began criticizing Danielle for making the TikTok video.