That's Jen Schefft Waterman to you! Though Jen didn't find love on either The Bachelor or The Bachelorette — she famously turned down the proposal in her finale — she did find love and marriage after the show. In 2009, she met Joe Waterman on a blind date and the rest is history. How residing in Ohio, they have two daughters, Mae and Charlotte, and appear to enjoy a quiet life. Though she has a Twitter, it's been inactive since 2017.

It doesn't sound like Jen's memories of the show are all that fond, either, though her experience was less traumatic and more disappointing. On a podcast appearance in 2017, she claimed her pick in the finale was "misrepresented" as an art gallery dealer when in reality he worked at an art store in the mall and was really an aspiring actor. 

You'll be able to catch up with the other 12 past Bachelorettes tonight. The two-hour reunion — not at all hyperbolically titled Bachelorette Reunion: The Biggest Bachelorette Reunion in Bachelor History Ever! — airs at 8 p.m. ET on ABC.