In October 2023, Ubah gagged Bravoholics everywhere when she stepped out with her previously well-kept secret, Oliver Daschel.

Page Six was the first to report that Ubah made her first public appearance with her boyfriend, Oliver, on Oct. 24, 2023. The pair attended the 2023 American Ballet Theatre Fall Gala at NYC’s Lincoln Center together and snapped a few photos on the building’s staircase.

Unsurprisingly, Ubah dazzled in a silver cocktail dress, red lipstick, and red nails as she beamed into Oliver’s eyes. According to Page Six, Oliver is a German Investment banker who, based on the photos alone, seems equally smitten with Ubah.

Ubah revealed during part one of the RHONY Season 14 reunion that she and “Mr. Connecticut” were going strong since filming wrapped, which was about a year before the reunion. While she remained tight-lipped about her boyfriend’s name and occupation, her co-stars agreed that he was her perfect match, with Jessel Taank noting they “balanced” each other out.