The RHOC star worked with Shane at the same real estate consulting firm, and they grew closer following his divorce from Miriam. They knew one another for about three years before his Google Chat proposal, and they married on Valentine's Day in 2009.

The couple celebrated their 13-year wedding anniversary in 2022.

The spouses have three children together: a daughter named Annabelle, and a set of twin boys named Luke and Keller. Emily's sister, Sarah Moffitt, was the surrogate for the three kids. Emily dealt with infertility issues and she also suffered six pregnancy losses before Annabelle was born in 2013.

Emily often shares photos with her stepdaughters and her three biological children on her public Instagram feed. On Season 16 of RHOC, Shane's daughter, Shelby, served as a guide for Annabelle as she was getting ready to be baptized as a Mormon.