Fehr and Tollefson met at the Los Angeles Opera, one of the biggest opera companies in the US, although when exactly they met is yet unknown.
The Good Wife actor and the producer tied the knot on December 22, 2000, and their parenthood journey started soon after.
Fehr and Tollefson reportedly welcomed their first kid, son Atticus Fehr, on January 4, 2003. However, a post on his Instagram from September 15, 2021, and the comments underneath it suggest that day was his birthday and not January 4.
Then, they had their second kid and first daughter, Finley, on February 26, 2006. And finally, in 2010, their second daughter, Azelie, was born.
According to his bio on one of his fan websites, the Fehr family lived in Ojai, California, as of April 2009.