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First impressions are crucial in every situation, especially when a possible relationship is on the line. Guys, on the whole, enjoy being the first to send a message. However, at times, this isn't always the case. You can send him a text if you like him and feel the desire to communicate with him. Below are some tips on how to start a conversation on Tinder with a guy.
1. Keep your message short and precise
Reading long emails or texts is tedious. People, for the most part, ignore them. As a result, it's critical to make your message short and sweet.
2. Do not begin with "Hi"
No one wants to start a Tinder chat with a message that just says "Hi." In most circumstances, he will respond with "Hi too," and the interaction will end there. Instead, send a striking message that will pique his interest and make him want to chat with you. "Hello, how are you doing?" for example. "Do you have anything planned for today?"
3. Offer him a compliment
Positive compliments may pique his interest in you. For example, you can comment on one of his pictures, you can congratulate him on something positive that isn't flattering. This will prompt him to tell you more or perhaps ask you questions that he believes would complement his story.
4. Avoid being overly assertive
You don't want to come at them with your entire life narrative, but you also don't want to make your initial greeting too short. You shouldn't send them any further messages until they respond.
5. Discuss common interests
You can talk to him about your hobbies and ask him about his. Maybe you two share a favourite program or a common interest. You can ask him about whatever it is to keep the discussion going. Plus, you'll learn a little bit about him along the way! If you're not sure what you have in common yet, have a peek at his profile or images to get a sense of his interests.
6. Share things about yourself
You'll be able to get to know each other better this way. Open up to him and answer any questions he may have while you two communicate back and forth. If meeting up with you is your ultimate goal, he'll probably feel more at ease.
