To be fair, Virginia is quite a bit younger than Erik and while she's ready to be married, she is not as ready as he is to fully settle down, have children, and give up parts of her youth. She tells Erik's sister-in-law in the clip that she just wants Erik to trust her and trust that she is being honest with him when she's out with friends or sleeping over at the homes of her guy friends. But it's a lot.
"Erik, I know, struggles, because he thinks my friends are still kind of in front of him," Virginia admits in the clip. "Some of my friendships have been around for so, so long. But I think sometimes he thinks I'm not working to get him to that number one spot, which I am. And for him, I think it was just a little bit easier to kind of put me in that spot."