Countess married Joseph James, her long-term boyfriend. They haven’t revealed the details of their first meeting, but it’s safe to assume they dated for a long before marrying. After several years of courting, they ultimately exchanged wedding vows on January 16, 2002, in front of their closest friends and family at a private wedding ceremony. Unfortunately, their marriage did not last long, and in 2005, they divorced. Following that, Countess became engaged to David Benjamin Richard Whitten. They had a disagreement about their engagement, so they called it off. Since then, the Countess has lived a solitary life and has never been in a partnership Countess is the mother of two children from prior marriages. Jaylen James, her son, was born on July 17, 2003, with her ex-husband, Joseph, and Sasha Whitten, her daughter, was born in 2009 with her ex-fiance, David. Countess adores her children and is devoted to their upbringing. With her children, Countess enjoys a joyful and quiet life.
The Countess suffered from vitiligo, a skin disorder. She only revealed her illness after thirty years on television. She also got a serious scalp infection, which caused her to lose her hair.