On July 31, 2023, Vasseur took to her YouTube channel to share some devastating news with her more than 1 million followers. She and her husband, Ryan Thomas, were getting a divorce. As a public figure, she felt it was her duty to keep her fans apprised of their situation. Vasseur mentioned the couple's two young children as her reason for not wanting to go into detail about why they were divorcing. "One day they might watch this video and I really do not want to say anything negative," she said.

All she was able to say was her situation "was not salvageable," and this decision wasn't made lightly. Six months later, Vasseur shared screenshots of texts to her Instagram stories claiming they were from Thomas. The stories have since expired but were uploaded to the r/YTVloggerFamilies Subreddit. Over the screen shot Vasseur wrote, "I'm done protecting this monster. This is why I left." She then said Thomas was also "trying to take everything from her."

The text is graphic and shows Thomas demanding sexual acts from Vasseur while insulting her. At one point he calls her a "pile of s--t," while claiming to be masturbating to the "hottest young skinny girls" he has ever seen. Things only get worse as the texts ridicule Vasseur's pregnant body while claiming her vagina was haggard and stretched out. At the very least these texts are disturbing and at the most, abusive.